Need advice

[tollicious]

i need some advice on what to do, i dont want to lose this girl, get put in the friend zone, but also not smother/ annoy her. i started talking to this girl about a month ago, ive been introduced to practically her whole family, all her friends, everything has been going good, and moving forward. weve kissed and i know she likes me. but this week she tells me that we should just be friends because next week she starts college and is gonna be working and isnt ready for all this right now. everything felt different with this girl and i would really not like any of the above to happen, how should i go about this? she said she still wants to hangout and talk, we just cant as much as we were cause shes gonna be really busy. i just dont know how much i should talk to her, or do i ask to hangout with her and stuff.

[April Masini]

Timing is important — and if you meet someone a month before they’re about to embark on a life-changing transition — like going to college, it’s not you that’s the problem. It’s just not the right time for a relationship for her. Think of it another way — what if you meet someone amazing — a week before she’s about to marry someone else. Even though you like her a lot, you wouldn’t pursue her because the chances of her being available to you are slim to none.

Compatibility is important in choosing a girlfriend, and while you may like blondes, or you may like women who are educated, you should also try to like women who are actually available to date. Your life will be a lot easier! 😉

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