It sounds like you are writing to me as if you’ve written to me before. ❓ If you have, for future, please attach any new posts to the old posts you are referring to, so I don’t have to try and guess which of thousands of posts previously written was yours!
However, given your latest post on it’s own, my suggestion is that if you want to change your social life, and be successful at it, you should do it organically, which, again, requires you to try things that you may never have done, but would like to do. If joining a gym is something you’ve always wanted to do, but never had time or inclination to do, then that would be a great way to do something interesting for yourself and allow you to meet other people at the same time. The same is true of joining a political or charity group that gathers to support that specific group’s cause. That would be another way of doing something that you may have been interested in in the past, but never had time or inclination to get involved with.
You may also find that internet dating allows you to quickly find people with your “unsociable” activities 😆 and that may be a place for you to start with other women.
I hope that helps! 🙂
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