So I met this guy, let’s call him Jasin, last semester at the university. We really hit it off. It turns out that coincidentally we had just about the exact same schedule and saw each other every day. We talked/text’d a lot, , were inseparable study buddies, and were basically becoming pretty good friends. In fact we were spending so much time that I started to develop slight feelings for him. One problem; we both were/are in a relationship.
Anyways, the semester ended and I told him that I was really glad that we got to meet each other and become friends and would miss him a lot over summer. Well he said he felt the same way and that we could hang out during the summer. So, after a couple of weeks of trying to get together we finally met up over summer. I wanted to make a day of it but he gave me some spheel about having summer course and not wanting to stay out too late so we just had lunch and hung at his place for a while. I was supposed to come back to “take a dip in his pool” (literally, he had a pool out back) but that never happened, i was too rapped up in my blog that evening. That was about it for the entire summer, I got really busy with my blog as did he with his work.
Skip to Now – Well, The new semester has started and even though we have a couple of classes together we barely speak to one another except for when walking to our next class when his sis is with us. Also I should mention he has a twin sister, lets call Amy, and THIS time it just so happens that me and Amy have almost the exact same schedules. So Amy and I are seeing each other a lot and hanging out. The problem is I try to talk to Jason but he almost never responds to my texts or voice messages anymore. I feel like somewhere our friendship had a disconnect and I have no idea what’s going on. Before semester started he was so excited to be sharing classes together and hanging out….now, notta. Then again in hindsight I never did make myself to appear as enthused (though I was)
I think deep down we were starting to make a connection as more than just friends but for whatever reasons (we are both in relationships?) it never happened. I’m fine with that, but I’m starting to feel like I did or said something wrong or maybe it’s something I didn’t say or do…?? I don’t know how to bring it to his attention without it coming off the wrong way and making me seem like some obsessive friend who is starving for attention…or maybe that’s the problem that I don’t give him enough….?? I dunno, and I’m at a total lost. I have no idea what to do.
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