There’s a big difference and a lot of ground to cover between being a nice guy and being, as you put it, “an A hole.” 😮 You don’t have to be the latter just to not be the former!
Here’s what you need to do. Take what she’s telling you (to slow things down), and give that your own stylish spin (with a little help from me 😉 ). Give her that space she thinks she wants, and in the meantime, you keep on going out to parties, with friends, and have a great time. If you’re so dependent on this one person in order to have confidence, you’re missing a big part of yourself, and that’s what’s unattractive to women! They want a guy who’s going to survive even if they dump him — which, ironically, is why they don’t dump him!
So use this space she’s asking you to give her, to focus on having a good time. When she catches wind that you’re not wilting without her presence, she’s going to feel like something’s missing in her life — you!
If you can’t focus your mind by yourself, download my book, Date Out of Your League, which I’ve written for men JUST like you! You can get it here: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url] For $14.95, you can have the book this afternoon and start reading a chapter or two a day over the weekend. The book, for sure, will help you focus your mind and guide you on the path to getting this girl back.
No more boring and begging for you. You’re going to be the guy who’s a winner with or without a woman — which is exactly when and why all the women will want you! 😎
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