You are not alone. I get so many letters and e-mails from men with this same question: How can I date a girl who’s out of my league?
The truth is you can date her — and better yet, if you follow my directions, she will really want to go out with you. I’ve written a book called Date Out Of Your League — For Men Only that is a quick read with chapters on every subject you’ll need to date out of your league, so if I were you, as soon as I finished reading this answer to your question, I’d click on the Dating Advice Books link at the top of this page and scroll down to Date Out Of Your League, and order the book. It will help you a lot!
In the meantime, know that nice guys don’t finish first because they’re perceived as boring to women. A woman wants a guy who’s exciting and knows his worth. If you throw yourself at this girl and heap on the compliments and niceties, she’s going to run the other way, stopping to yawn whenever she thinks about you. This woman you describe is going to want a guy who she thinks is valuable, and if you act like you’re valuable, and don’t have all the time in the world to spend on her, she’s going to see you as someone who’s out of[i] her[/i] league!
When something or someone looks easy, their worth is less than something or someone who appears to be more rare and valuable. So focus on making yourself valuable to her. It will make her a lot more intrigued and interested in you, and you [i]will[/i] have a date with her before too long.
But play it safe and get my book, Date Out Of Your League, so you have all the secrets, hints, tips and tricks for getting the women you thought were too good for you.
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