So this may be a long one but here goes.
I have been single for about 2 years after my divorce. I haven’t been with anyone other than dating until now. I had a friend of mine move into my area and when it started out he was just suppose to room with me for about a month or 2 until he got his own space. We have known each other for about 5 or 6 years.
It started out with me going back home to visit family and friends. We ended up making out while intoxicated and then nothing happened from there. We talked about it and just laughed it off.
Then he moved shortly after I returned home and moved some of his stuff into my place. About 2 days into him living with me we realized we liked each other and didnt quite know where to go with it. So we gave it about a week and then ended up deciding to be boyfriend and girlfriend. We talked about things such as “was it just for convenience” “was it because he just moved here” “was it because he spends so much time with me” ect ect. We came back to him saying how he really just liked me and really was happy that this situation worked out the way it did.
We still agreed that it was best for him to move out because we didn’t want to have us living with each other early in the relationship and we both still needed our space. So he ended up finding a roommate online. He approached me when he found the place and informed me it would be with a girl and asked if it would be a problem. I have no reason not to trust him and we have had long discussions about trust and cheating. So we agreed that it was fine.
Just yesterday he moved out and after he grabbed his last stuff he gave me a kiss and said I will call you later after I get all moved in. I stayed home after work and didn’t get a call from him. I got at text around 11:30pm that said hey how are you? and it was just chit chat back and forth for about 5-10 min then nothing. This morning at around 10 I texted him and said morning I hope you had a good night. Then I haven’t heard from him since.
I am curious how I should take this. In one way I’m a little frustrated and kind if feel like maybe I was just a convenient fling for him. In another way I feel like I have known him for so long and he is moving and that if he felt like things weren’t working that he would be adult enough to actually talk to me about it. I have had some guy friends tell me I need to calm down and just give it a few days and if I don’t hear anything by Monday then I should be concerned. I have had a few friends tell me they would be pissed and that it sounds like he just doesn’t care, or that maybe he isn’t interested.
Advice please!
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