Your feelings are valid, as are hers. The problem is that you’re looking for a commitment and she’s not. 😕 You like each other, but she’s interested in playing the field, and you’re looking for someone who’s wanting monogamy and is very clear about that. It’s an incompatibility that you have between you right now. 🙁 It’s tough to have this type of gap in your relationship goals when you both like each other, but the reality is that you’re not going to get what you want from her by sticking around so she can see you and other guys as well. In fact, you’re more likely to win her over, by standing by your convictions. 😉 If you let her know you like her way too much to share her, and then move on because of that, she may find you more attractive and see what it is she’s missing. 😎
When people stay in relationships because they’re afraid of losing someone, at the expense of what they know is right for them, it never works in the long run. People stay in the friend zone because they’re afraid of losing contact even though they’d rather be dating, and you’re staying in her “dating pool” because you’re afraid of standing up for the relationship that you really want, for fear of losing her. Time to show her who you really are and what you really stand for! 😉
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