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I am a recently out gay man who has just started dating this nice guy. The problem is that since I am the bottom (and naturally so, I guess as I like a strong man), and since I am totally at his will, especially when he mounts me, I have difficulty in letting him know it hurts like hell.

A couple of times I whimpered for him to stop because it was hurting so bad, he pretended not to hear me and even actually began to thrust harder. Now, I know when guys get “back there” their entire rational mind flees the scene, leaving only the primal, animalistic brain behind and it that brain that take over and boy, does it!

What am I doing wrong?

[kai]

Hi, I’ve told this to several other people who have posted questions in the WELCOME AREA: the Welcome Area [b]IS NOT for questions[/b] and [u]should not[/u] be used to get advice. 😮

it says “DO NOT post your questions” here, when you go to sign up. 😳

Please [b]repost your question in the Q & A Relationship Advice Forum[/b] if you want to get a response from April.

[b]you won’t get a response to your question here — this is the welcome area.[/b] 😀

[April Masini]

Let me know how things are going for you? 😉

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