Please help someone!

[thekeelster]

Hi there!
I have been having a somewhat long distance relationship with a guy that lives in my home town. He got in touch with me about 7 weeks ago via facebook and we have been messaging ever since. I have met up with him a few times and it’s always been good. Earlier this week, we were still exchanging texts and also picture messages with each other.
This week, a friend of mine told me that someone she works with knows someone that has been seeing the guy I have been seeing. I called him to ask him and he has denied it which I chose to believe. He also told me that he was enjoying getting to know me and wanted to take things slowly as he had a bad experience with his ex, they also have a 2 year old daughter.
I contacted him the following day to ask if he was ok and he told me that he was really annoyed with what had been said (there were still kisses on the end of these messages!). I have tried to contact him via text yesterday but he hasnt responded to either of the messages I have sent to him.
I am now wondering whether this is him using this as an excuse to stop talking to me, or whether he could generally still be annoyed by what had been said. I wouldn’t have thought a man would be sending pics of himself and still being nice in messages if he was planning to blow someone off, but he did then change about 48 hours later by not replying to messages!!
Can someone help?!

[April Masini]

I don’t think he was planning on blowing you off. I think he was planning on leading you on. 😕 You caught him in a lie and he didn’t come clean. Instead, he realized you’re going to disrupt the way he’s set his life up dating you long distance and this other woman locally. The fact that you know people who know about his life locally and are reporting back to you made him very, very uncomfortable. In fact, he took his discomfort out on you. I don’t think his blowing you off was planned — I think he got backed into a corner and didn’t feel like he had any good options besides the one he took.

I hope that helps you figure out what to do next.

And I hope you’ll become a member of AskApril.com on Facebook at this link: [url]http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=110265355684755&ref=ts[/url]. 😀

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