Pleasee helpp! :(

[Chels1221]

Okay so I’ve been talking to this guy for at least 5 months. We’ve hung out 3 times. Once to the movies (which I paid for myself) and the other times movie night at his place. He has a job and is always working so we dont get to see each other a lot. Anyway I really like him but I don’t think he’s that interested in me I feel like he just wants to hit it and quit it. I think he’s a player. I asked him if he was talking to anyone else and he said no. I just don’t know what to do. Should I ask him flat out how he feels about me and if he sees this leading to a relationship or should I just sit back and wait. I don’t want to scare him away but I don’t want to waste anymore time or put anymore feelings into this. Please help 🙁

[kai]

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[April Masini]

You already have your answer — he’s not that into you. 😳 If he doesn’t take you out on a date (he asks you out, he makes you feel special, he pays), he’s not that into you. If your only date was dutch treat, and then the next two times you saw each other, he didn’t even feel he needed to show you a good time by taking you out and making you feel important to him, he’s not that into you. You have your answer — don’t go asking for what you already know. Move on! 😉

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