Relationship advice

[Gaurav200555]

Hello

I am about to get engaged in next two months , it’s a love com arrange marriage , after 6 months of efforts our parents are convinced for marriage and everything’s looking good . But I don’t know why I feel now that my girl is not giving importance to me as she was giving earlier .its all her efforts and motivation that we e going to be together but don’t know what happens now . She will never express her love now and always reply rudely. Even she don’t have time to chat and talk to me now and if we r on phone she still busy in facebook of WhatsApp. I am in habit of giving too much importance to herald always available if she text. Please help me it’s tenses situation for me .

[April Masini]

You’re going into an arranged marriage and it sounds like the arrangement isn’t so great for you. 😕 Why not talk to the parents who are dong the arranging — yours and hers — and explain the situation and how you feel about it. This is a different dynamic than a the kind of marriage where two adults decide to get married. Since your parents are all arranging the relationship for you, they’re the ones you should talk to about your concerns with the woman they chose and the way the relationship dynamic is playing out. The success of an arranged marriage depends on the husband and wife and how committed they are to making the marriage work. It sounds like she’s not as interested as you are in the success of this marriage and it’s much better to talk to your parents about this now, before the wedding.

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