It sounds like you have a minor incompatibility, sexually, but that it’s really a result of your more stressful schedule. Here are some tips and pieces of advice to deal with the problem:
1.Try and diffuse the situation when you turn him down. In other words, tell him how great he is and how much you love him, but that you’re just swimming in stress and if he gives you a night off, you’ll make it up to him the next time. In other words, don’t give him a cold rejection. Warm it up a little.
2. Every once in a while, when you feel like turning him down, don’t, because you’d expect the same from him in return. Compromise and generosity make relationships work when there are differences like this one.
3. When you’re not in the bedroom, tell him how much you appreciate his giving you a break every now and then, and that you find him incredibly attractive, but while you’ve got this stress of school, you just think he’s even greater than before because he’s mature enough to make this compromise for you now and then.
See if that works, and let me know!
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