I was seeing this girl who just got out of a really bad relationship. I would go up to her work and see her. She would bring my lunch/chocolates at school and wait for me outside of each of my classes (college). She started coming over to my house and lying with me and such. We would go out on dates but she paid each time. I told her that me changing jobs, I was flat broke. I tried to kiss her once and she said “friends don’t get hit in the face”. She explained that she just wants to be friends for a while and does not want a relationship. I respected that, but I don’t know if I should have taken the chance and just kissed her. Why would she be over and lay next to me, touching me and such? I said I’ll be her friend but I already saw her as someone I liked and it is hard for me to go to a frienzone with her. Recently she has started dating someone else who’s able to take her out (and has made it no secret) more than me (just started a new job so I am a little broke). She seems to be a little more disinterested in me and I don’t know why. I’m thinking about completely ignoring her. Not to play mind games but for my own sanity. It just seems like a d*** move but I can’t think about what I need to be thinking about (school/work). She keeps calling/ and texting me. Is she playing mind games with me? Has she lost interest? Why? I need some help.
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