Should I ignoring her. Not to play mind games but for my own

[tunnl85]

I was seeing this girl who just got out of a really bad relationship. I would go up to her work and see her. She would bring my lunch/chocolates at school and wait for me outside of each of my classes (college). She started coming over to my house and lying with me and such. We would go out on dates but she paid each time. I told her that me changing jobs, I was flat broke. I tried to kiss her once and she said “friends don’t get hit in the face”. She explained that she just wants to be friends for a while and does not want a relationship. I respected that, but I don’t know if I should have taken the chance and just kissed her. Why would she be over and lay next to me, touching me and such? I said I’ll be her friend but I already saw her as someone I liked and it is hard for me to go to a frienzone with her. Recently she has started dating someone else who’s able to take her out (and has made it no secret) more than me (just started a new job so I am a little broke). She seems to be a little more disinterested in me and I don’t know why. I’m thinking about completely ignoring her. Not to play mind games but for my own sanity. It just seems like a d*** move but I can’t think about what I need to be thinking about (school/work). She keeps calling/ and texting me. Is she playing mind games with me? Has she lost interest? Why? I need some help. ❓

[meowmix]

Maybe she feels a bit insecure about the way you can’t pay for anything. You should try taking it slow and talking to her less until you are financially stable. Then try to start seeing her again. If she still seems to not like you, then you need to find someone else who does.

[April Masini]

Definitely let her go — completely. She’s dating someone else and if she’s coming over and lying on a bed with you, there’s something going on that is confusing at best. She’s also told you she doesn’t want you to kiss her — I just don’t see what’s in this relationship for you except torment.

You’re right — the friend zone is not a fun place to be when what you want is a romantic relationship! Let her go and stop returning her texts and calls so that you can be truly single and focus on being a guy who’s looking for a girlfriend — who wants to be a girlfriend! 😉

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