1) i m Arnav kumar 28yrs old, SC (MBA and MA) and my gf z 25yrs old Rajpoot (B.Com), and we r in a relationship with my gf for last 1.5yrs, and we both r aviation industry professional, my salary z 25000 and her z 11000. her parents are completely against the marriage and my family wont get agree until her family say Yes.
2) i am not at all rich in fact we have lil bit financial problems too and she belongs to a upper middle class.
3) i am not well settled guy and dont think that i am a perfect one for her, but she always says that she will manage and she z also ready to break off with her parents forever.
4) her parents want her to marry with a guy who belongs to there caste, govt employee (Joint Engineer) salary could be 70000-80000 per month.
now the problem z, if she will marry with me then she will have to compromise for lots of things and may be in future she will get irritated due to lots of compromises in her life.
and now i m also confuse that- should i marry her or not?
becoz she z lil bit fat but btful, educated, working, loving, innocent, funny, caring also. and i dont want to mess her future. and she z not agree to leave me in any case.
yes i love her so much thats y i dont want to mess her future. she z completely perfect for me bt on the other hand i m not a perfect 1 for her.
that is why i m confused that- should i marry her or not?
and right now i am completely tensed about her future and her family relations too.
yes we love each other that is why i m posting here and there to get to know the people opinion becoz love z blind and blindly i dont want to mess her future and family relation.
now plz plz plz plz tell me that what should i do..?? Bcoz we both dont want separation.
i vl be really very thankful if u guys sort out my this confusion..
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