Okay, so I have been seeing this guy from work for about 2 months, but just recently he has “broke it off” with me, and I know exactly why, I screwed up, and I want to fix it.
When I first met him, I was always happy, very confident, and he liked that, and even told me from the beginning that he didn’t like girls with attitude problems or moody girls. About a month in, I discussed this guy with my friends, and I let them get in my ear. Me and this guy were texting everyday, seeing each other every weekend, and I liked it that way but my friends said “He should be calling, you guys should be seeing each other more then that, he sounds like he’s using you” Eventually I let all this stuff get to my head and I became insecure which is not who I am, and I think I let it be known to this guy that I was becoming insecure.
When I would see him at work (he only works weekends) I would ignore him and act strange and moody (just what he said he didn’t like)
I know that I screwed this up, and that I shouldn’t have let anybody else’s opinion get to me so much.
He is now telling me that he doesn’t think we are a good fit because we have 2 different ideas about life, I know that it’s just an excuse, I think I became someone that he didn’t like. He said he wants to be friends but I’m not gonna lie, I don’t want that, I want more and that doesn’t mean a relationship, cause I’m not ready for that, but I want to date and continue to get to know him.
So should I let him know how I feel, and tell him I wasn’t acting myself or should I honestly just let it go?
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