hello, iv been seeing a girl for a month now. however, she is very shy and I feel there is a sheet of ice between us. When i pay her complements to her, it goes completely over her head and changes the subject. It sso far hard to get close like holding hands, arm in arm etc but we do snog at the end of dates. We are very chatty when together and on the first date, it lasted 5 hours. Any advice on what to do next, should I say how I feel etc or will that frighten her away.