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Something you won’t see everyday. Am I reading her wrong?

April Masini Relationship Advice Forum Relationship Advice Forum Something you won’t see everyday. Am I reading her wrong?

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    relationshipa1
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    Okay so i started talking to this girl a couple months ago and I’m also a girl and she knew that i was already in love with another girl but me and the new girl were kinda just cuddle buddies and we liked each other. But me and the girl that i was in love with are going to the same college. But the new girl (sorry if this gets confusing) kept saying how she wasn’t into girls and everything and that’s why we never dated but one day after we hung out she said that we need to stop because she feels weird doing it (she held my hand and cuddled with me all night and seemed fine) then a couple days later I told her that I really liked her and she said that needed to stop so we didn’t talk much. She would text me everyday but only talk for about an hour. She freaked out on me when i told her something about the girl i loved tho so i don’t know why she would that if she didnt feel something for me. Also, I went to give her her birthday present and she didn’t look at me once, why is that?…

    She barely talks to me now tho and she is now talking with the biggest douchebag in my town. He’s a player and i told her he was the only one that I wouldn’t want her to get with and back when we were messing around he was trying to get with her and she told me she didn’t want to and she wouldn’t do it. But before whenever I talked about him she would get pissed off and she still does now! Whenever I start talking about him it pisses her off and I’m not even talking bad about him.. We talked all day yesterday and yesterday was the day I told her that I told the girl I was in love with that I didn’t want to get back with her in college( The new girl thought that was what I wanted all along and I thought it was too but it wasn’t and she kept asking me why I denied her… Do you think she still likes me?

    #19196
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    She likes you, but she also likes boys and this is going to be a big mess. Your life will be a lot better if you can be clear on your sexuality (which you seem to be ) and only date other women who are equally clear on theirs. My advice is that it will be better for you to find someone who’s not just into you, but is clearly a lesbian like you are.

    I hope that helps. Please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter.

    #17756
    Anonymous
    Participant

    Do you think she will ever come around? And do you think she’s only talking with that guy to make me jealous? Because before she didn’t seem that into him she just thought he was cute

    #15738
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    You’re not hearing me: Stop going after someone who’s into a guy right now. I don’t know if she’ll come around or not, but for now, she’s not interested in you. I don’t think she’s doing this just to make you jealous. I think she really is interested in him, and you’ll be much happier looking for a lesbian who’s as sure of her sexuality as you are, to date.

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