Spat on girlfriend’s face

[Maximal]

I spat my ex-girl friend in the face bc she cheated on me.

We had around a month in the relatioship and I had never read her cellphone messages untill one day I took it and she was planning to meet up with a guy to have sex. We used to work together and live close to each other. I felt really hurt bc we had agreed that we were going to be exclusive. Bottom line… she went to my house to hangout with a gay friend in common and I was drinking and we started talking and she started with an actitude like man do it all the time and that she already apologized (via texts) and thinks heat up and I grabbed her face and spat between her eyes and grabbed out of the house. I think i would have preffer to be the one who was spat than the one with the broken heart. I’m I wrong?

[April Masini]

Yes. You are wrong. You should never spit at anyone. No exceptions.

And…. you should never try to be exclusive before you’ve dated someone for at least six months. It’s controlling and it’s not realistic. People play the field because it’s healthy to do so. Making an exclusive commitment too soon puts way too much pressure on the relationship and creates drama and mistakes.

I’m sorry that you are so angry and hurt, but you have to figure out a way to control your temper. Spitting on or at someone is never okay.

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