[djaurora]

I have been married for 2 years now. My husband says he wants to spice up our love life – but doesn’t elaborate verbally of physically. We both go down on each other semi regularly, we do missionary, me on top both forward and backwards and doggie style. We have sex during the day and in the evening. I wear lingerie for him… So how can I help to spice up our sex life?

[Anonymous]

I know this may sound weird but watch porn. Just because you give him oral doesn’t mean that you can’t try a different technique when you are doing it (like play with his balls or something,hehe) My bf loves it when i talk dirty to him but I couldn’t do it without laughing so i watched porn and finally got “serious” about it . I tell how much pleasure he gives me and how i love his… I really feed that ego. I also got better at oral and hand jobs, and let him watch me do things to myself. I take control, just different stuff. Now he talks dirty to me, haha. Anyway, I hope this helps 😀

[April Masini]

Sometimes sex isn’t about mechanics or technique, but about feelings. Passion is the number one elixir for desire and I think that there are ways you can reignite your passion by bolstering your romance and intimacy. I’ve written a book called Romantic Date Ideas that you can buy here [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/romantic-date-ideas.html[/url]. It’s a book written for couples who are dating or married. I get lots of correspondence from people who want to spice things up just like you do, and this book suggests and guides you through scenarios that are meant to get your juices flowing, not just downstairs, but upstairs (in your brain!), too. See if this book helps you, and let me know if any of the dates I’ve set up for you in the book are particularly useful.

Looking forward to hearing back from you! 🙂

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