Talking to someone who’s always with their friends.

[gmarsh157]

I’m not sure what to say, or how to approach this guy I like. He is very studious but also always seems to be with his friends. We have one or two mutual friends, but they never hang out with each other at school. He’s very sweet and we are in the same social justice club, so there is a posiblity of talking to him there, but like I said, I don’t know what to say to him to spark a flirty conversation. Any advice you can offer would be helpful, thanks so much. 🙂

[Evie]

You sound like me when I was single. No idea on how to approach a guy you like. 🙂

I don’t think that the first time has to be necessarily flirty. Perhaps the second or third time. Just say hi to him whenever you run into him, ask him how he is and see if whatever his replies are will lead on to another conversation. Try to see if there’s something in common you can talk about – favorite sports teams, or things about the club you two are in. I think that’s a start. Show him you’re interested but don’t make it so that he’ll run off or something. Start something small. When he’s with his friends, include his friends.

If you want to be flirty after the initial conversation, you can always tease him. I used to do that to guys I liked. The important thing is to be yourself.

Hope it helps.

[April Masini]

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[gmarsh157]

Thanks a lot..I try bump into him (without it being creepy,lol) but he always has people around him. I like to think I’m a pretty confident person, However, it’s difficult to approach a group of guys you half know and say hi. I’m guessing I’ll just have to wait for an opportunity where it’s just us two. Thanks a bunch, I value your advice 🙂

[April Masini]

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