[lovesucks73]

Me and thais guy are really good friends, and i really like him. The only things is is that he has a girlfriend, but me and him mess around. What should I do? Should I tell his girlfriend? Should I feel bad for her? Do I make him choose? I’m really confused and need your help! 🙁

[Megz327]

First off, I was the girlfriend of a guy who cheated and its a horrible feeling. Think of how you would feel if it was done to you.

That said, I think you should back off. He’s cheating with you so he will cheat on you if you two ever become official. Tell him how you feel and then let him make up his mind. If he truly cares about you and wants to be with you, other than a secret hook up, then he will break it off with his girlfriend and be with you. If he doesn’t, then it was never anything more than fun.

And no I don’t think it is your place to say anything to the girl. She wont believe you and it wont help matters at all but instead make him probably mad and dislike you and she will be out to screw you over.

[April Masini]

It appears as if you’ve posted this question under another name as well as this one, and I’ve already answered it today! 😆

Long story, short, you need to buy my book, Think & Date Like A Man, and read it! You can get it here: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. This is a book written for women who want to GET the guy they have their eye on. It will help you a lot!

Good luck — and please let me know if after reading the book, you still don’t know what to do next. I’ll be happy to help you further. 😀

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