The Waiting Game

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  • #2631
    Tess13
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    Two nights ago, I was at a relative’s wedding rehearsal, and was introduced to the son of family friends that we haven’t seen in a long time. We are both in our early 20s. We ended up hitting it off and talking for the next hour, all the way through the dinner. Not too long after we started talking, we discovered we both wanted to see the same movie and he asked if I would like to go sometime. I said yes and he asked for my number. We continued to talk the rest of the night, and when his family was getting ready to leave and he told them to go ahead without him, and he would take the bus home later, because he wanted to continue talking to me. He stayed as long as he could, and said he’d really liked talking to me. I agreed, we hugged, and we left it on a very pleasant note.

    Yesterday morning, we saw each other at the wedding. He said hello, but not too much else. It was hectic with people coming up to each of us, saying hello, etc. He couldn’t be at the reception, because of work, but we hugged goodbye before he left.

    So, basically, my question is, is it me, or doesn’t it seem like he was really interested? Now I’m just nervously waiting for him to call. Do you agree, or am I delusional?

    #14468
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    You’re not delusional — but you’re putting all your eggs in one basket. Dating is a numbers game, and it’s great that the two of you had a good connection at the wedding rehearsal, but unless he calls for a date, you need to keep your options open. The best athletes go to bat numerous times before they hit the ball out of the park or make that bucket outside the keyhole. It’s not your batting average that’s so important — it’s your number of home runs. So don’t put a lot more thought into what [i]he’s[/i] thinking. Keep living your life, and if he calls, super great, and if he doesn’t, he wasn’t interested enough to call, and your investment was low.

    I’d also strongly recommend you read Think & Date Like A Man, a book I wrote for women who want to find, get and keep Mr. Right. You can download it here: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url] and read it by the weekend. It’s a great bible for you to guide yourself SUCCESSFULLY through the dating game with all kinds of tips and advice on how to date to win. 🙂

    Let me know if you read it what you think and how it works for you. Also, join me on Facebook — I’d love for you to become a member of my group page, AskApril.com on Facebook at this link: [url]http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=110265355684755&ref=mf[/url]. 😀

    #14552
    Anonymous
    Participant

    Hey called for a date. I’m really excited, and I’m really hoping to maintain the same fluidity of conversation that we had the first time we met. Any tips on how to do that?

    #14423
    maelene87
    Participant

    Hi, congrats! Just be yourself that is what attracted him to you in the first place right? When I go out on dates I let the guy do all the talking make him a little nervous ! Good luck

    #14502
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    You already know what to do to get him to date you! Now, get him to want to win you over! Quick. Download Think & Date Like A Man — it’s a book I wrote SPECIFICALLY for women who want Mr. Right. It’s a quick download, and you can start reading tonight. Here’s the link: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. Let me know if it helps.

    And join me on Facebook. The link for AskApril.com on Facebook is: [url]http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=110265355684755&ref=mf[/url]. 😀

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