this guy is super confusing

[countrymusicgirl]

Okay, so a couple weeks ago, this guy I work with told one of my best friends that he kinda liked me and was wondering if I was single. My friend told him that I am single and he apparently told her that he would ask me out. A week after that, I saw him at a friend’s birthday party and we basically talked the whole time. He then said that he’s working evenings all weekend but he’d love to hang out with me during the day, and I said yes and told him to let me know what he wants to do.
Because we work together, I saw him like every morning after that. We would even spend hours together in our work cafeteria just talking, and every day before we left I would always say “hey let me know what you want to do this weekend” and he’d always say “yeah, don’t worry, I’ll hit you up!”
Well, the weekend’s passed and I never got a single text from him about our date. Did he forget he asked me out?!?! I mean, he was the one who showed interest, not me! I’m just so confused, why is he being so weird?

[April Masini]

Why he’s not asking you out is less important than the fact that he’s dawdling and not performing. 😕 The bottom line is that if a guy wants to date you he will. If he doesn’t, he won’t. The why — is less important than the fact that there’s no first date so far. But worse… you’re spending time and energy worrying about it. 😳 Don’t worry — you’re normal. Lots of people do this, but it’s annoying to expend energy on the chance that a guy will ask you out. My advice? Easy. Get busy and move on. If you’re not focusing on him, you’re going to appear popular, interesting and not so available — because that’s who you’ll be! And the irony is that he may find you more datable when you’re less available and less interested. 😉 Try it.

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