First of all, I’m so glad you’ve written, but for future, please ask your questions in the Q&A forum — not this Welcome Area forum. I’ll answer this here, but you’ll get more people reading and chiming in, and more of my attention 🙂 if you post your questions there.
In answer to your question, if he’s spending every weekend with you and texting you a lot as you say, then he does want to see you. When you ask me if he’s thinking of you as a couple again, I’m not sure what you mean, because based on what you’ve told me, he clearly is spending time with you as a couple, so why wouldn’t he be thinking of you that way?
If what you [i]meant[/i] to ask me was whether or not your boyfriend is interested in you as marriage material, then my answer would be different. When a man wants to marry you, you’ll know it because he’ll start treating you like a serious girlfriend. I think that your break up was hard for him to get over, and it’s easier for him to spend time with you “secretly” as you say, rather than be with you full on, out in the open, declaring you the woman he wants to be with. So, yes, I think your boyfriend is thinking of you as a couple — who wants to hang out on weekends “secretly” — but, no, he’s not thinking of you as a future Mrs. Right.
Ball’s in your court!
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