What an interesting response! 😀
The problem with waiting for him to finally tell her why he hasn’t had sex with her in over a year of dating and six months of living together, or for her being patient (more than she has), is that at age 32, when most women are thinking about a marriage, having children and a commitment that will last, [b]cariboomedic[/b] has possibly wasted a lot of time with someone who takes a year to discuss what is normally discussed in the first few months. This isn’t about virginity or having sex. It’s about knowing who and what you want in a relationship.
Clearly, [b]cariboomedic[/b] is writing because she thinks she’s in the “weirdest relationship ever” and she can’t get her live in boyfriend to tell her why he won’t have sex with her. This isn’t normal. If it was important to him not to have sex until marriage or some later date, then it would be right for him to tell her. If he has a medical problem, then it would be right for him to tell her.
Yes, sex does complicate things — but it doesn’t have to, and not having it for over a year, at age 32, when you’re living with a man you’ve dated for over a year — and not knowing why your boyfriend won’t have it with you because he won’t tell you — is a lot more complicated than sex could be! 😳
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