What do yas think

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    jdawg
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    So my girl and I were in my room the other day looking at a promotional calendar of half naked girls. You know, the usual calendar. Anyhow, when looking at it i said “It would be cool if i had a calendar just of you, that would be sexy”. Her response to this was not at all what I was expecting. She blew up calling me a “freak” and a “psycho” and we pretty much fought for the next half hr until she walked out. Is what i said bad? Ive been with her for over 4 yrs she has never reacted this way to anything, I am however, more open and understanding of everything where as she tends on occasion to think things are strange (if she doesnt agree with them). She has told me things i think are weird but because I am very open, nothing could make me react like she has. I feel very judged when i dont see a problem with the idea. P.s, It was only a thought, not a request. In all honesty I could not be bothered to make one, but the calendar just inspired my imagination.

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    JohnWalters
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    John Walters is a contributor [url]http://www.onlinedatingsites.net[/url]

    It sounds to me like you’ve treaded on some insecurity of hers, and for whatever reason that particular moment was kind of a perfect storm for her to flip her lid. Could be body issues, a feminist thing, a commitment thing…more likely than not she didn’t think she’s worthy of this kind of praise and needed a roundabout way to lash out at you for BSing her. One thing is for sure, words like “weird” and “creepy” are just euphemisms for something else she doesn’t want to say.

    #22340
    kai
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    I notice that you have placed your question in the forum for Guest Writers and Advice Column Contributors.

    This is not in the forum where April answers readers questions.

    If you want to get a response from April, please repost your question in the proper forum, the Q & A Advice Forum.

    #31965
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    Happy New Year! Let me know how things are going for you. 😉

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