I am not sure how to explain this that it will make sense but I will try. I met a guy about a year ago through some friends. He seems like a great guy. He is really sweet and caring. The first time we met in person was at our friends wedding ( we were paired up in the bridal party). Since we had never met in person, I was nervous especially during the first dance. I usually don’t like to be that close to people that I don’t know very well. This is where it gets hard to explain. Even though we had just met and I was nervous, I felt comfortable with him. After the dance, he came over to talk to me and kept putting his arm around me and would rub my arm and my back. At the end of the night, we hugged goodbye and he said he would call me the following weekend to try to make plans to go out again. Is it possible to be nervous and comfortable with someone at the same time? What does that mean? Could that mean that there was an instant connection between us?
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