I’m sorry your boyfriend broke up with you after a year, but your questions about why he did it, and how he could do it don’t really serve you. You can’t know what’s in his head or in the part of his life where you weren’t. And I don’t have enough information from your post to spot any flashing red lights in the relationship. Understand that you’ll probably never know for sure why he broke up with you. But what is important is [b]you[/b]. 😛
You need to focus on yourself — especially since he’s not in your life any more. Let him go, altogether, and put the spotlight on you. You get to be the star of your life, now, and this time around with a guy, I hope I can help you more aware of what you want, and who the men you’re dating [i]really[/i] are, so that you can decide who to spend [i]your[/i] time with wisely. 😉
I know that the break up hurts, but rejections can be a big gift because you don’t have to be with someone who doesn’t want you. Some women write me with your story — except!! — that they’ve been with the guy for 3 or 4 years. 😮 You haven’t wasted all that time with someone who isn’t interested in marriage with you.
If you haven’t already bought it, check out my book, Think & Date Like A Man, that you can download immediately for $15.95, and start reading this week. Here’s the link. [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url] It will help you understand specifically what you have to do in order to find and get the man you want.
So heal your heart, and know that he wasn’t the right one. You’re going to have a great fall and winter ahead of you if you follow my dating advice, and get out there so Mr. Right can find you! 🙂
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