[Theloveking]

I had 4 gf be4 this is my fifth. However something is really bothering and confusing me at the same time. This girl i dun even know if i shud say “going out with” I mean we watched movie alone, shopping alone, my place alone, her place alone. we had fun we kiss we hug even some body contact. Today a friend hit on her and she told me to talk to him, she then said but imm not you’re girl friend. can someone give me some advice on this, the previous ones were my “girlfriend” after 2 hang outs alone. They wanted to be and are mine. This one? I dun read her girls give me some advice

[April Masini]

Well, until you’ve asked her to be your girlfriend and she’s agreed — she’s not your girlfriend. That being the case, it’s not your responsibility, nor is it appropriate, for you to be talking to anyone on her behalf.

That said, if you want her to be your girlfriend — tell her that.

To answer your, “What is meant by “girlfriend”?”, question directly: Generally speaking when someone refers to someone as their “girlfriend” or “boyfriend” the implication is there is an exclusive relationship (as opposed to just “dating someone”).

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