What should I do? (Stuck with question: does he like me?)

[4douknow12]

I am really confused right now. I like this guy who I think he likes me. Once in a while, he would say he loves me and misses me on msn; but…I don’t know if he’s actually talking real or kidding (coz he usually gives me an impression that he is the joking type of person, so I’m not sure whether he is being serious), so I just take it as him joking. Then, he asked me to be his date for prom (and asked me to dance on that night too 😀).

And usually at school, when I peek(=p) at him, I think I saw him looking at me too (but I’m not sure though). At every lunch period, he always spends some time over and talk and joke around with me. But the only thing is, he always ‘bullies’ and makes fun of me (I would say). He likes to take away my stuff so I cannot do my work; he likes to make fun of my height; he likes to say I will fail when I have a test (however, on msn, he usually wish me luck); and he likes to argue with me.

I am passive person; I really want to tell him that I like him, but I can’t say it. But the main question is, does he like me? And if he does, how can I make it more obvious that I like him (other than say it face to face) so he can do the action:D? Should I let my friends to help?

Thanks. This had stuck with me for a long time, like 7 months. Before, I remember that he only asked me once to be his partner for prom and didn’t mention anymore ever since. Thus, I thought he doesn’t like me. However, 2 days before prom, he ensured me that he’s going to prom with me. So…I am now confused.

Really thanks for lots and lots of advice:D:D:D:D

[4douknow12]

why isn’t there anyone replying?? Please help! Plozzz

[ThinkingRight]

Guys (especially young guys) tease girls like he’s doing to you when they really like a girl because they don’t know how else to get their attention and interact. My guess is that he likes you and instead of coming straight out and telling him how you feel — start teasing him back instead.

The next time he teases you about failing a test — ask him if he’s looking for a job as your tutor?

When he teases you about your height say something like, well even Shaq (Shaquille O’Neal), who can have any tall model he wants, picked a petite girl because he knows that petite girls are the hottest! He’s 7′ 1″ and his wife is only 5’3″!

You get the idea….

[4douknow12]

[quote=”ThinkingRight”]Guys (especially young guys) tease girls like he’s doing to you when they really like a girl because they don’t know how else to get their attention and interact. My guess is that he likes you and instead of coming straight out and telling him how you feel — start teasing him back instead.

The next time he teases you about failing a test — ask him if he’s looking for a job as your tutor?

When he teases you about your height say something like, well even Shaq (Shaquille O’Neal), who can have any tall model he wants, picked a petite girl because he knows that petite girls are the hottest! He’s 7′ 1″ and his wife is only 5’3″!

You get the idea….[/quote]

thanks for your advice! the only one who replied:D

[tricia]

I think you will know the answer on your own. Me myself could notice if certain people likes me or not. I could based it on the way he talks or simply mingle on me. I understand that you are scared to have a wrong conclusion or you might misunderstood his actions. I suggest you to do nothing and let him do the first move. So just relax and wait….

[relation]

The answer is MOVE ON… and EXPLORE MORE…

Dont worry about this guy, whom U r not sure about, you may end up regreting.

[April Masini]

What guys say and what they do are sometimes two entirely different things. The old adage, actions speak louder than words, works when you’re confused. So given that, I’d say your friend really does like you. Since he asked you on a date to prom, you can rest assured that he liked you enough to bring you to this big night.

When you catch a guy looking at you when he thinks you’re not going to catch him looking — that’s a sure sign he likes you. If he comes over to your lunch table while you’re eating, that’s because he wants to see you! And when he teases you by taking your things from you and makes fun of your height, he’s showing you he likes you the same way young boys will pull a girl’s pigtails or snap her bra strap for her attention. It’s not particularly mature, but it is a sure sign he likes you.

Rather than chide him for stealing your books or teasing you about your height, show him the kind of interaction you like, by giving him positive rewards when he does something nice. Sometimes guys, of every age, need to be shown what a woman likes whether it’s during flirtation, dating or other communications.

If you’re too shy to use words to tell him you like him back, that’s okay. In fact, I don’t think telling him you like him back is such a hot idea just yet. Instead, show him with your actions. Give him your best smile. Flirt with him. Tell him what you like, that he’s doing, for instance, say, “I love that you came by my lunch table to say hello today. It really made my heart skip a beat!” Believe me, those gifts will be as good as gold bars to him.

And remember, if he asks you out on a date, that’s a sure sign he likes you. If he doesn’t, that’s a sure sign he’s not that interested. You can apply that like a math equation to any relationship.

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