What to DO!!!!

[cpht2010]

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years and have 3 children together. Lately facebook has been a conflict in our relationship and we always talk about what bothers us and yet nothing changes,,,he tends to like these fan pages of girls taking pictures of themselves breast and ass all out…and im starting to feel a little jealous because i feel like what about me im not enough to look at that you need more..i know men are like that but we are in a serious relationship and i feel thats not right…trust me i always tell him and he says that its nothing to get me jealous over with..he also says he theres nothing wrong in looking and why am i so worried about it if he is with me..maybe im just overreacting..i dont know i need a second opinion…dont feel sexy enough after having 3 kids body is just not the same…..what excersises can i do to lower the jealousy? Thanks!

[April Masini]

My suggestion is twofold: First, if you don’t feel very sexy after having three kids in four years, you need to start working there. Start exercising, working out, and taking care of yourself. If you’re like most new mothers, you’re putting yourself last. Time for that to change! 😉 If you have a pedicure and a manicure, get a haircut, start walking, running or doing whatever daily exercise you like to get the endorphins going — [i]and[/i] buy yourself some new lingerie, YOU’RE going to start feeling sexier — and when you start feeling sexier, he’ll notice. Make sure the two of you get back to romance and dating (each other!) which will take some work — but you can do it!

Second, don’t sweat the small stuff. Guys are visual, and if there’s a lull at home between the two of you, it’s natural for him to be looking. And if all he’s doing is looking….. this may be a time to let it go.

Let me know if this helps, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url]http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1154528031[/url].

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