First of all, you have to keep at it. Talking to girls is something you need to work at. So first, make sure you frequent places where there are lots of single women. I don’t know how old you are, so not knowing, my general advice is coffee shops, yoga classes, volunteering at places where you have to work with each other, Like dating, talking to women you’re possibly going to be interested in is a numbers game. Rejection is part of it, so don’t let that get you down — just keep going!
Second, be approachable. Smile. Look like you’re not rushing off. Be doing something interesting like taking a break from a great book, walking an adorable dog, or looking for a good book at a bookstore you’re browsing. Next, ask for help. Women love giving you advice on what kind of latte to order, which book they think you’ll like, or how to work the dryer in the laundromat.
Compliment them. Making small talk starts with an opening line, and a compliment that isn’t creepy (you have great breasts) and is genuine (boy, you order your latte like you really know your coffee — yours looks great).
Get involved in events that require conversation like working at an election polling place, volunteering for a veteran’s administration event or helping out at a block party. You’ll find conversation flows more naturally at places where you have to talk to women in order to get a job done. You can segue into social conversation from there. 😉
I guarantee you’ll have some nice conversations with women if you do all of these things! 🙂
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