Why would he do this to me? How to get over the anger

[dale]

Nope, no anger issue with you…. 😯

[Anonymous]

And no retardation issue with you.

[ThinkingRight]

Dale my friend, don’t waste your time on this sicko.

Take a tip from the guy she was asking for free advice about — the only thing to do with a woman like this is ignore her. She is one ANGRY BITCH 😡 😡 😡 who needs more help than anyone here should take the time to give her.

April, I hope you ignore her too. She’s an ANGRY sicko bitch 👿 👿 👿 who doesn’t deserve your time or to be a member of this site.

I hope your moderator blocks her. 😀

[Anonymous]

Wow, he called me a sick bitch. You’re so smart, you’re so witty and intelligent. Who taught you those words? So powerful, so riveting.

You’re the sick bitch, and you’re so damn stupid you assist in the disturbance of your precious forum by coming in here and bitching. You don’t know the meaning of sick or you wouldn’t even call me that, how irrelevant and ignorant. You’re a dumbass and a follower and you should go fuck yourself, since no one else wants to (EI why you’re on a self-help forum in the first place).

BITCH.

[ThinkingRight]

you mean exactly why YOU’RE on a self help forum in the first place, don’t you? 😮

i didn’t come here seeking april’s advice about a guy who dumped my ass — you did. and boy oh boy, it’s such a big mystery why he stopped calling you! 😆

[Anonymous]

Hahahaha I stopped calling HIM. You just proved you didn’t read or understand shit, just coming in here to start shit with strangers because you’re a pathetic, lonely tard bored with your life. Now everyone sees you’re just a lonely, bitter bitch reading what you want to believe opposed to what’s actually said to make yourself and your insults look good, and to also make you feel like your sad life and situation (IE why you’re on a self help forum) is less sad and pathetic than it really is. 🙁 You’re a dumbass fucking bitch and it isn’t bad enough that you can’t get anyone to look at you or give a fuck about you but you can’t read either.

Do your fingers curl in opposite directions? Do you drool and TAAaaaalkkk LIIEk DIIss?

Go jump off a bridge. Maybe the person you’re desperately wanting attention from will finally give a fuck about you…..hmmm…….

NAH you suck go to hell.

[TooCute]

she’s an angry loser who just likes to fight with people and blame everyone else for everything instead of looking in the mirror. 😯

she’s nasty 😡 and hateful 👿 and angry 😈 and everyone needs to just ignore her.

don’t respond to any more of her posts…. she not worth wasting any more of our time. 😀

[Anonymous]

Hahahaha, “loser”? Last time I heard that term being used I was in middle school, hahahahaha, dumbass.

Lol @ hateful, nasty and angry. You have no proof or basis for your childish, pathetic name-calling, only going by posts by other sad, lonely and bitter assholes such as yourself. You all call me angry (for no reason) and look at yourselves: you people are so angry, look at your behavior? Someone asks a simple question and engages in a conversation that isn’t your concern and you feel the need to chime in with so much anger and abuse, because you all are lonely and bitter, looking to take out your frustration on others, and bitch at strangers like me asking for advice.

You all are the evil, hateful, and nasty “bitches” here, not me. Look in the mirror at your behavior and the reason for it. You’re hypocrites, and this is grounds for me to report this site and the users. I suggest y’all stop verbally abusing and harassing me and go on about your business, you bitter “losers”.

[ThinkingRight]

yeah, uh, recognize this: [i]“Couple more months past, no return letter. Or messages. I’d call once or twice but he never answered. But it turns out he was around anyway and just didn’t respond as i found out later. When he came back he didn’t contact me either, so I finally found the courage to not just contact him through web and things (cuz he wasn’t answering) but call him instead (1st time in a while. When i called he said he was out, “with someone” and would call me back later. He called back and said “i’m only calling you back because you wanted me to”.[/i]

it seems not only do you not remember your subject title (How to get over the anger) as Dale pointed out, you can’t remember your post either.

you’re a real genius.

toocute, you are absolutely right…. i’m done wasting my time on jaga — the charming, lovely lady that she is. 😉

everyone who reads this can see why she’s a real man magnet! 😀

[Anonymous]

Lol you pick at a particular segment of my post that you know nothing about. You read it with anger and a closed-minded mind in the 1st place, you already are trying to fight with me on account of being bitter from your own life, so you will read particular segments of my post that will sound better for your insults (yet you have no idea what you even picked seeing as how you have no idea about my situation period), naturally, and ignore the rest because it would make your insults worthless and nonsensical.

What’s really wrong, “notthinkinright”? Did you never have a partner to love you? Have you never had a relationship period? Everyone goes through breakups and such, but you never even had one to even have the chance to have a break up yet. Is this where your deep hate and anger comes from that you are projecting onto me?

Talk to April about it, I’m sure she will tell you how worthless and pathetic you are and maybe you can move on and live your life easier knowing this is certain.

[Anonymous]

The t/s is not the only one who seems angry, in fact, many of the posters I’ve seen in here are ridiculously childish, shameful and raging, and for what? This is supposed to be an advice forum. Many of you are on this forum to get advice for your various situations, and that doesn’t make any of you better than others. Problems are problems and you’re all on here still trying to get help, so act mature and refrain from hypocrisy.

“jaga”, when you went into the relationship you knew the kid was an emotional wreck, but you got involved with him anyway. The second you spoke to him and immediately felt depressed, that should have been a warning sign and you should have ran the other way. It seems to me you were desperate for love to the point you wanted to get it from anyone, including an obsessive, miserable Mikey. You need to stop worrying about “why” he did what he did to you and worry more about “why” you allowed yourself to be taken through emotional rides by this boy. No man is better than the wrong man: learn to love yourself enough so that you won’t settle for bottom of the barrel little boys, and instead spend your time with good, strong men who are actually worthy of what you have to offer. Make them earn your attention and kindness. If he didn’t do it to you he would’ve done it to someone else. His instabilities are not your problem and yet you made them yours. You got off on a good start by cutting him off from your life, now stop dwelling on what he did, learn to love yourself and not let it happen again, as in, don’t give people the chance to treat you like shit, and move on with your life from here on out. You’re better than that.

Answer: Move on. Good luck.

[Anonymous]

whoaahhh gurly its ok. you have to admit the lady has got a point! i read the post and you should’ve have told him straight up “DUDE. your sooooooo not worth my time!” cause he wasn’t and in a way you did let him walk all over you like nice little welcome mat. and I know its SO hard to admit it because i’ve been there but you can’t give him the power that he thinks he has. and be realistic if he’s that much of a jerkface then no girl would want him! TRUST ME LOL! 😆

[April Masini]

Anger is a secondary emotion that covers up hurt. The angrier someone acts, the more hurt they are. Acknowledging the hurt is the first step to moving forward and away from anger.

What an interesting thread this has been!! 🙂

I just tweeted it for everyone who follows me to read! If you’re not already following me, now is the time! Just follow me @AskAprilcom (no dot!) on Twitter. 😉

[Anonymous]

It looked to me like she was more frustrated with what was said than she was “angry”. It was until actually angry posters came in and insulted her that I saw actual anger in her. As far as hurt, disappointment and sadness goes, now [i]that[/i] I saw. Women need to understand that weak, worthless men are nor worth a woman’s tears. A man must earn a woman’s kindness, and she must be happy with herself first, establish confidence; so that way, when the little boy dumps her, she will be okay and able to move on unscathed.

Answer: You must get self esteem. If you had any you wouldn’t have given such an emotionally depressing loser a second glance. Work on that.

[Anonymous]

Thank you answer, i appreciate you understanding what is going on in here, and helping me as my posts asks for it. I hope I can mature and become more confident sooner than later. I’ll work on it so I won’t put myself in these kinds situations again. His problems are not my concerns. I have to worry about me and me only. Thanks again.

[Author]

Posts