Your problem isn’t that your boyfriend may cheat on you in the future — it’s that he’s already cheated on you four times that you know about. Instead of his changing his behavior, you’ve taken him back because “you’re weak”. I can guarantee you that this dynamic will continue unless you change YOUR behavior. 😉
In response to your questions: [quote]What can I do to keep him to myself? [/quote]
You can’t. He’s already cheated and probably cheating on you.
[quote]How can I learn to trust him more? [/quote]
This is a trick question, right? If someone cheats on you and lies about it, he’s a cheater and a liar. You can’t trust a cheater and a liar because they don’t put a premium on telling the truth or on your feelings. There [i]is no[/i] trust when you’re dealing with a cheater and a liar. 😕
[quote]Do I need to change everything I have ever believed in just to be with him? [/quote]
You can be with him, but be assured that he’s going to also be with other women that you do and don’t know about.
The problem here isn’t him — it’s that you’ve chosen someone who isn’t committed to you and tricked yourself into thinking you’re in a committed relationship. Time to wake up, smell the coffee and accept the situation — and decide to get that committed relationship you want — with someone who will give it to you. He won’t. 😳
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