Will I ever get another chance after the break up ?

[Desperatehere]

I have been recently dumped by my girlfriend that Ive dated for almost a year. Its long distance relationship but the feelings were very strong on both ends. Unfortunately stuff happened and we didnt talk for a while . When i messaged her after over a month of not talking she said it was over cause she got sick of the stuff I did not being there for her and such. I said I would change , I would do anything she wants but she said she gave me enough chances. When I asked if she would ever consider giving me another chance in time, like a month , two months , a year from now I don’t care how long if she will see that I changed she said ” I don’t know if I can , I want to move on for now” . What do you think that means ? Is there ever a chance she will reconsider ? She admited that we had some amazing moments together and that she thought I was her soulmate , she used to say that a lot that I am her soulmate. Do you think I ever will get a chance ? I love her very much and I don’t want to lose her .

[April Masini]

I think she’s being very clear that she’s done and she’s moving on. She’s also telling you that none of us knows what the future holds — but for now, this is over. I’m sorry you’re disappointed. Rejection stings. But like many others who don’t want it to be over, you’re grasping at straws to try to convince yourself that it’s not over. So, even though she may have once said you felt like soulmates, and you may have had some wonderful times together, she’s done. Those moments are in the past.

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