Woman Texts Married Man While He’s On Vacation With Family

[pharrigan210]

A single woman (divorced) texts a married male – a friend/a coworker – while he’s on vacation with his wife and kids.it wasn’t a pressing matter. just a funny story of something he missed at work. it could have waited until he returned. they chat throughout the week. but it was very clearly initiated by the woman. what’s going on, from the woman’s perspective?
To her, is it an innocent convo between friends
or
Was it a calculated move? designed to see if she could get him to converse with her while with his wife? and if so, is it an ego boost for her, that she drew him in to a convo, while he was with his wife? is this a sign of interest from the woman?

[April Masini]

I’m going to guess that you are the wife and your husband is the one who is texting a co-worker during his family vacation. Your questions have to do with the motivation of the co-worker. They really should be about your husband. It’s always an instinct for women to attack the other woman, but it’s a mistake. The real problem is between you and your husband. This other woman is just a symptom. I know that’s probably hard to hear because you want to lash out, but it’s a mistake to contact, engage or spend much time thinking about this other woman. You need to focus on your marriage.

Figure out why your husband isn’t more interested in his family or his marriage. Are there any things YOU can do differently to interest him in the marriage? Shift your focus and see if things don’t get back on track that way. 😉

I hope that helps. Let me know how things go, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url]http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001113133958[/url].

[pharrigan210]

I gave you the wrong impression. Sorry! I’m the husband. I was on vacation with my wife and kids. A female co-worker emailed me while i was on vacation and we kept conversing all week. If i thought she was just being friendly, i would have thought nothing of it. but we are very friendly. and on several occassions i thought an affiar was close to happening. but it never occured. she actually rarely initiated convos with me, but is always friendly and flirty when i initated convo. but then she initated a convo in a BIG WAY, i think – while i was on vacation. i dont see her all the time at work. happened to run into her two days before my vaca and told her about it. then tuesday – WHAM – she emails me. wondering if she was just being friendly. or it was calculated on her part and all the other questions i asked in my inital post. THANKS

[Candiqueen]

Need some good advice. Don’t worry about what this womens intentions are. Pay attention to your wife and kids. If you really want to know though, she likes the attention you give her but isn’t overly interested in YOU. If you enjoy flirting and are wanting other women you owe it to your wife and mother of your children and tell her. That, or man up and be repectful to your family. If your wife and you aren’t working talk about it and take it from. Cheating and affairs never turn out well.

[April Masini]

[b]candiqueen[/b] gave you some good advice. My question to you echoes her advice: Why are you so interested in this other woman’s motivation? Instead of focusing on her, focus on yourself and your intentions. 😉

I hope that helps. Please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url]http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001113133958[/url].

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