Hi April, I work in a shopping centre making coffee. This girl from another shop has been coming in for a few weeks now to get coffee on her breaks, (i only see her twice a week max cos we are both casuals) and weve been gradually talking more. Shes shy like myself, but we always make eye contact and it feels like there is a connection forming which i think she feels too. Lately shes been coming in for coffee twice as often and is making effort to make conversation. She is gradually making more effort to talk and i am thinking i should ask her out. only thing is I want to be sure before I ask so i dont come across as too strong too fast. How can I be sure?