young, a teen and deeply confused with my matter!

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    lexigirl
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    It was all okay until a 2 months ago, then it became complex…
    I was starting to get a crush on one of my guy mates, and he acted like he liked me to. Then a few weeks later, he told me that he was gay. As the weeks progressed we became closer and closer and everyone started saying it was obvious he had a crush on me because of how he acted around me. This completely through me, now I have no idea who to believe! Now I’m getting told that we act like boyfriend and girlfriend and it’s so confusing as I’m now unsure if he was telling me the truth or lying to get closer to me, please help!

    #10169
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    Gossip is such a drag! And it’s confusing, too.

    Quit listening to what everyone else says. If your crush told you that he’s gay, and therefore not interested in a relationship with you, [i]that’s[/i] who you listen to! Why on earth would you listen to anyone else, when this guy is being truthful with you?

    Okay, I’ll tell you why. Because you’re looking for another answer. You don’t like the one you got from your crush, so you’re fishing.

    You have no reason to believe this guy lied to you, so accept what he said. Enjoy your friendship, and trust that if things do change down the line, [i]he[/i] will tell you himself.

    #10245
    lexigirl
    Participant

    Thanks so much you are completely right! I’m no longer confused. Thanks once again :]

    #29471
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    Let me know how things are going for you…. 😀

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