Helpmeouttoday

[Helpmeouttoday]

Hi….
I am in real big mess now …
Had started trying to know this girl (from my hometown) as mentioned above …and i was happy with progress….
Had stopped all my interactions with the first one stying away from my home town…
But now she has started pinging me again/sending me offline msgs asking for my whereabouts ….asking some stupid questions just to get some response from me…i can understand that from those questions as anybody could have given out those ans there is no pt asking me such ques….then when i m online asking my plans about marriage when do i plan…..why ?all of sudden..do you see this nomal

Help me ….

[Helpmeouttoday]

Thanks April…
Yes…I guess you are right…
I should looked around me more rather than thinking this girl…
Actually been chatting with girl back in my home country….in fact I know her maybe during same time…she is also of my age….She had been around with me …. but never thought about it ….
We have now been talking almost daily….If we do miss day or two …we hope 2 catch the nxt day…
We dont talk nything really intimate …it is genral talk…
Is it rational to find someone so fast … am i really heading into relationship…
If not i dont want to move in ..bcoz she is really a nice frnd of mine and I dont want to hurt by talking abut it to her …how should I move on or should I let things move as there presently
Frankly speaking I am enjoying whatever it is but I dont what to hurt her fillings if she has started thinking abut it
She is very shy by nature and I am sure she would never ask me directly …what signs from her should I expect if she is thinking about it
…. Please guide me …

[Helpmeouttoday]

Hi …sorry for that reply …wasnt any position to get my mails
Yes you may be right ….I had exact same thoughts about 2 yrs ago ….tht was when ….
I had actually given up talking with her for almost 6 odd months or more…dont remember …..
I had changed my mobile no for some other reason…purely for technical reasons ….and had not shared
my no with her….then she pings me online after that time …gives her mobile no again takes my new no…
again I start talking with her…. again we reach the same state where I have started thinking of stopping it
The only question I have is if she really not interested she had all the more reason to avoid me then … i didnt pinged her …i never ask her for her no…
Now I am out of home country for 4-5 months for work..so driving down may not be option for me now
But frankly speaking….i know i like her …and i would again be reaching same state later…
I did not mention about this part before bcoz in period of 10 yrs this patch was small…

Please advice

[Helpmeouttoday]

I am 28… she would be 23…met her on excursion were almost together for 10-15 days then…presently live in 2 diff cities about 5-6 hrs drive…last i met her in person was 7 yrs back…how do I go about ?

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