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November 8, 2011 at 6:43 am in reply to: really confused dont know what to do or say help please! #20400
ankit
ParticipantIf he cheated on you once,people might think that he always do like this.But sometimes people make mistakes,if he is saying that he wants you back,just give him a chance . If you really don’ t trust him ,don’t fall in this at a rapid pace,take your time,try to know him once again and slowly let him enter in your life again. ankit
ParticipantHe is definitely,interested in you.But due to some reason he is not trying it too hard.Both of you take your time. ankit
ParticipantThis guy definitely have some interest in you .Maybe he likes you but right now not able to think like what he has to do regarding you and him as a relation.Let him take his time to decide,maybe this would benefit your relation later-on. ankit
ParticipantReally it hurts when a sweet relation goes down like this.But don’t look fb things too seriously,like its still there on his profile ‘In a relationship’.If he don’t wan to be in a relation you can’t force him to be in it.So,let the time pass by and if both of you think in the same direction then take this relation further otherwise this is an end.But if he thinks like you can also do like his ex did with him then try to console him that you don’t do the same things to him. ankit
ParticipantMaybe or maybe not! Get on a high spree but not that much high . She might be think like you would be her man kinda thing . Wait and go slow . Meet her on fb , talk to start normally like what you do, where you live etc . and give her time to decide and take your time too .It would be good for both of you . ankit
ParticipantActually the part of destiny is just like it sends many people in one’s life but this is the sole right of that person that which person he/she would select . Destiny give us many chances to meet different people . One has to select 1 person among who are with us maybe with the choice of destiny .I don’t believe in the concept of soul mate . ankit
Participanthey girl,i understand what you are felling right now , but this is life . You have to bear all this . See , don’t matter how much you love him but if he don’t to live his life with you , better you stay away . Suppose after marriage he do this to you then what you do . So,its better to ask him once otherwise move on in life .Time will heal all wounds .
Don’t worry , have faith.ankit
ParticipantAs relationship grows sometime these things happen . Don’t think like he is cheating or something else . Maybe he is too busy with his work or something like this . You can talk to him regarding this . In love try new ways to impress him ,people think that all these things are not necessary ,but it is for sure . As if your father hugs you ,you would definitely feel good instead of he just say this .In love relations all these things play crucial role .Try finding new things in life to do with him ,this would definitely change his mind at this point in time or some other time . ankit
ParticipantThis behavior is so stupid . This is definitely not a one night stand coz if it was ,then after that he would never had text you . But as in this case he always text you .Ask her about what he wants .This behavior is so unpredictable . Don’t make guesses , be straight forward . ankit
ParticipantI understand it is very frustrating .But the good part is that your fiance is with you only . Whatever his mother and his ex is saying it don’t bother him . Putting all perspectives in mind you should first talk to your fiance in detail that what he thinks about all this,and when this stops . Whatever you put in this post about his loyalty that wherever he goes,he goes with you , when his mother asks him about when he is going to shift with his ex he said never , shows that the question about his liking and loyalty is worthless . Just talk to him and tell to clear his ex not to interfere if he is happy with you only . ankit
ParticipantAs you were in two relationships in the past , consider yourself a pro not a beginner . It surely make some difference in one’s views as their age increases . As he is 10 yrs older to you , is a large gap ,it is possible that he is thinking of marriage and don’t find you to suit his req. or he thinks that you are too younger to him that’s why it wouldn’t be possible .
Clearly , ask him what he wants from your side? , what he thinks about you? Clear it off by asking whatever comes in your mind .ankit
ParticipantHe definitely likes you . But due to some reason he is not ready to take all this into a committed relation . Maybe he needs sometime . Give him some time to think and take your time too . The things you put in your post regarding his concern with you seems like he likes everything in you otherwise he don’t bother if you should talk to someone else . ankit
ParticipantI think this is just an infatuation towards him or the chances are that as he just added you on facebook but soon after the patch-up with her ex ,he deleted you,your heart and mind is not going to accept this that’s why your need to get that kid for you become strong . As you already said that he is a kid, then why you are thinking as if he is just a kid .Be patient and get yourself busy in some work . ankit
ParticipantMay be she is just thinking that carry a long term relationship is not possible for both of you as she is leaving for the college distant from your place . IF you think that she also likes you as much you do , then talk to her and clear up all the things , before she leave . I think she is definitely happy with you that’s why she hangs with you but this is the reason which is not going to let her do the things she want . ankit
ParticipantWhat is about to worry in this ? She is texting you ,this is not an issue .If you just want her to be her friend it’s cool . I think she is also not putting weight on you . Take it easy ,don’t think otherwise . Take your time ,if in future you like to take further this relation then think about this .At this point in time there is no issue I think . -
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