Gardenia6791

[Gardenia6791]

Dear April,

Thank you for your last advice. Since my last post here, I was debating to send my “boyfriend” an E-mail telling him that I needed to move on with my life. However, I don’t want him to think that I’m chasing after him. I’ve finally come to terms with the fact that he was no longer interested in me. I’m the type of person who doesn’t like to end things on bad terms. I realized he didn’t even have the guts to tell me that he wanted out of the relationship. But if I didn’t let him know about my decision to move on and go our separate ways, it means I’m just the same as him…a coward and believe me, I’m not a coward. Do you think my decision to send him an E-mail as my closure is a good idea? I’m not entirely sure this is the greatest or even the smartest idea that’s why I’m asking you for a second opinion. Thank you for all your honest and helpful advices.

Regards,

Gardenia6791

[Gardenia6791]

Dear April,

Thank you for you reply. I guess I was in a state of denial and didn’t want to accept the fact that I had to start finding a guy who is closer to where I live and start leaving in the real world. I think dating him online was a safe and comfortable option for me in the beginning because of the abusive nature of my 2 previous relationship before this. It’s funny that I needed a total stranger to tell me this when I should have figured that out a long time ago on my own. I felt like I wasted 3 years for nothing…for a guy who obviously he didn’t deserve my love and attention. I thank you for opening my eyes and showing me the cold hard fact about my problem. I guess I just needed a second opinion about this and to hear it from other people. So again, I’m extremely grateful and I’ll try my best to make myself available again in search of love.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart,

Gardenia6791

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