No doubt, counseling can be helpful for you and in many cases it works. But It depends if your husband really wants it to work. If he can try to change himself and work on issues, I’m hopeful your relationship will be better than before. But If he’s not willing to improve himself or can’t control himself, you’ve no choice left but to leave him. Here are some effective ways to be happy in a relationship[/url] hopefully will be helpful for you:
1. Honesty is the key factor in a successful relationship. If there is lack of honesty in a relationship, it is very difficult for it to last longer. So make sure both of you are always honest with each other.
2. Try to spend quality time with each other whenever you get a chance. Plan a romantic dinner, movie, hiking trip or picnic at the weekend. Try to do things that both make you happy just like the earlier days of your relationship.
3. Being a good listener also helps to improve a relationship so listen to your partner’s problem and give him good advice.
4. Always be open and honest with each other and don’t hesitate to convey your feelings to your partner. This way he will know that what kind of things make you uncomfortable and what issues he has to work on to improve the relationship.
5. Discuss you problems with patience and always respect each other’s opinion.
6. Finding things activities or common goals that you both love to achieve also helps in bringing you together.
7. Another important thing you can do is give each other space and “me time” every now and then.
Hopefully these tips will be helpful for you.