benjamin

[benjamin]

i’d say your in the right to be angry, i’d say shes obsessed with him, that’s why shes calling all the time ectt……. friends dont call all them times, if you really feel that weird about it all, you should ask him to loose contact with her fully, ask him to do it for you, your his wife, and if there’s nothing going on with him and his ex, hee wouldnt have any problem with cutting her off, would he? well i don’t blame you for not trusting him, he really needs to look at it from you point of veiw for example, what if it was one of your ex’s ringing you all the time ect… i’m pritty sure he would react how your reacting now, jelousy, finding it hard to trust ectt…… so i think he’s being unfair on you here, he needs to think more of you, for example, he needs to think shes my wife, and if she doesnt want me talking to this woman, then i wont ect…… or maybe, you should ring her yourself, and ask straight up, whys she calling YOUR husband, and what she wants ect…. becuase from how this sounds, it sounds like she still loves him, and wants him back.

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[benjamin]

pritty tricky, well i’d say meet him and just generaly support him as much as you can, so he know’s your there and you care about him, listen to what he has to say and try to understand it, and if you have any troubles on your mind, you should be open about it and tell him, but say somthing like, when your ready, ill be waiting for you, then your not pressuring him, your letting him know, when hes ready, that your there. He ovs loves you otherwise why would he want to talk face to face? he just ovs has some issuces he needs to sort out, so i’d just say give him all the space he needs and all the support you can give to him, and when hes ready, he’ll be able to tell you still love him, otherwise why would you support him? give him spaces? ect…. so really you don’t need to say you love him ectt…. your showing that with your actions.

hope it helps

[benjamin]

pritty tricky, well i’d say meet him and just generaly support him as much as you can, so he know’s your there and you care about him, listen to what he has to say and try to understand it, and if you have any troubles on your mind, you should be open about it and tell him, but say somthing like, when your ready, ill be waiting for you, then your not pressuring him, your letting him know, when hes ready, that your there. He ovs loves you otherwise why would he want to talk face to face? he just ovs has some issuces he needs to sort out, so i’d just say give him all the space he needs and all the support you can give to him, and when hes ready, he’ll be able to tell you still love him, otherwise why would you support him? give him spaces? ect…. so really you don’t need to say you love him ectt…. your showing that with your actions.

hope it helps

[benjamin]

thats a tricky one, well you carn’t really stop her seeing her mate’s, so you carn’t really do much in that department. Well one way she could be upset because she’s done somthing with another lad maybe? or it could be just the drink talking, 5 years is along time to just throw it all away, you should say to her, that she needs to sort the drinking out or u’ll leave her, and then u’ll of made her choose either you or the drink. Personaly i think thats all you can do. if you need more advice, add me on msn bud and we can talk about it betterly, [email protected]

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