I take her out on date nights. After we have company over once they are gone she will go back to the computer. I have talked to her about it a couple times it gets better for a few days then goes back to the same thing. We broke up over this once a few years ago and i almost married another girl. When we got back together things were great for awhile then we moved in together. I got a $2000 dollar bed she still sleeps on the couch and then complains she hurts all over. She came to bed the last 2 nights and i gave her a massage all over her back for about an hour. Once i tried to go any further than that i got shut down and told tomorrow night. Well next night she all of the sudden started hurting before bed she did come to bed again but rolled over away from me and just went to sleep. I just don’t know what else to do.