Thank you so much for your help, I really appreciate it and am going to take it all to heart.
You’re right about Tinder, the people I meet on there are not going to be the kinds of people I want to date. You were correct in assuming I wasn’t looking for a hook up, so I need to meet people who have the same views and values as me, and that doesn’t include Tinder. Dating a guy who lives in another country across the ocean isn’t the best idea either. That’s why I was so confused as to why he keeps messaging me, if we both live in different countries what does he expect to happen? But I also don’t want my first relationship to be long distance, and with a guy I’ve never met, so I don’t think it’ll work out between us. Thank you!
Thank you for the kind words, I know that I shouldn’t feel ashamed about my lack of experience. I’m going to stop focusing so much on what I don’t have and try to let myself be honest with people. It’s just expected in our society that everyone should have some sort of past great love by the time they reach a certain age, which makes those of us who haven’t experienced that to feel a little left out.
That was my fear, adding him on Facebook or sending him an email when we don’t even really know each other. The problem is that I can’t really walk around his building at all, because it’s in a restricted location that only those who work in the building have access to, which doesn’t give me much of a chance to meet him. I might be able to hangout around the area, but I won’t be able to tell when he leaves or arrives as the building is in a backstage area I can’t reach.
