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[christina4sg]

Thanks April! Really appreciate your advices.

[christina4sg]

Nothing happend! We were supposed to meet on Saturday but he wrote me earlier and asked me if we could postpone it for Monday, cause he had to leave somewhere and would be back on Monday morning. Well I said: Ok will keep in touch.
Hoping he would write me on Monday to decide the time and place but no text from him all day. So I decided to text him at the evening: you’re not serious at all when dating someone!
He answered me instantly: sorry I have fever and was feeling really sick. So he had forgotten and said sorry again. I replied: well get well soon and I got a ‘thnx’ text back.
Really don’t know what to do! I want to know how he is but I’m not sure if I should write him.
Also have another question: How is it possible boys always think about sex? Do they ever feel smth for someone?

[christina4sg]

Probably gonna meet him tomorrow!
Need some flirting tips please.

[christina4sg]

Thank you both for the advices.
I’ll let you know as soon as soon as I do smth. Exams are killing me at this time.

[christina4sg]

Hi April, it’s me again! I know it’s been a while since our last conversation, but I’m hoping you’ll give a quick look to the previous texts.

Well this guy has been writing me again, over and over. This month he has written me thrice and that’s WOW! As he used to write me once in a month. Anyway that’s not what matters. The matter is that he lets me to understand that he wants something with me. I’m not quite sure what that thing is as he is so unreadable. I’m gonna tell u a part of our last conversation so I can describe better the situation. He thinks I’m shy, and i told him he’s wrong about that. But he kept insisting and so I challenged him. Now he wants to see me, and asked me to tell him when I was available and he would come. I told him: “Will see. I’ll let u know.” He answered: “Dont waste time.” I asked him: “Why? U will find someone else?” And he answered: “We’ll let things cool down and thats not good.” And i said he could wait a few more days, so he answered: “For u I’ll try. See I’m a good guy.”
Actually I haven’t asked him to meet yet. It’s not the problem that I’m not available. I’m always available, I’m just avoiding this because I don’t know what to do. I’m dying to meet him, see him, it’s just that I don’t wanna get hurt. What if he just wants something adventurous with me and that’s all?! I want to have him in front of me and figure out what he really feels for me and what he wants. I have so much things to ask him (things that I’m sure, I wont ask him if we meet. Don’t want to look like a depressed girl).

Please help me. Should I write him for an appointment?
Looking forward for your reply.

[christina4sg]

Trusting his behavior over his word means I should let go the idea of being with him someday, and actually thats what I’m trying to do.
Actions are what matter, and if he says he misses me but does nothing to change that, it means stop caring about him.

Thanks April really great pleasure to read your replies!

[christina4sg]

Yes I’m angry! I’m sorry but I’ve skipped the fact that he has kissed me. In this case i think things are beyond flirting. And now comes his attitude that I don’t get. Is it this difficult to tell a girl I don’t wanna talk to you anymore? It’s not right to keep a girl making illusions. Anyone in my place would make illusions. Anyway I wouldn’t do something like that to a guy, maybe thats the reason why I’m geting so involved in this situation.
But I swear I don’t understand man!

[christina4sg]

Okay that helped a lot. Still I’m gonna wait him to text first and try putting into practice my flirting skills! But something deep in me says I should not respond him back anymore. He doesn’t deserve it!
Anyway Hope it won’t take another month for him to text again 😛 whether I respond or not.
Sure I’ll let u know.
Best wishings April.

[christina4sg]

Thank u so much for your reply! I really appreciate it. Maybe it’s true that I’m kind of rushing things up. I just wanted to highlight the fact that we just dated the first month and after that he used to write once in a month for two more months. During this time I never texted him first, just replied his texts. Do you think this might be a reason why he doesnt write more? Maybe he thinks I’m not intrested or smth like that. You think I should make a move forward and text him?
Thank u again April.

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