clubgirl

[clubgirl]

No I agree with what you’re saying and that’s why it’s hard to reach out for advice but there’s a lot offff background into it.. the way I made it sound is like he is a low life but he really isn’t lol.. and I’m not just saying that because I’m a pretty strong, independent girl.. I don’t want to move out until I get married because that’s a choice I have..

Secondly, we’ve had sex in beds plenty of times but when one of our families is out of town and at one point his family was gone every weekend..
but I still don’t see sex diminishing as such a horrible thing? only because nothing else in the relationship is going wrong? and that’s what I’m trying to understand.. and it’s not one of those “oh you think nothing else is bad” but it’s the truth we’re very open and he will tell me the truth even if it’s going to hurt..
Also, he told me he would change his number so that I’d believe that he doesn’t ever wanna talk to her again cuz she wasn’t getting the point and I was soo frustrated that he said I’ll change my number, and at that point I pretty much said if he didn’t then it wouldn’t work out.. and things have been absolutely amazing since then which it’s been about 9 months since he changed the number..

but, I definitely do agree with you and the whole “parenting” thing because sometimes I feel like I’m taking care of him and I don’t want that but it would be different if he wasn’t doing anything with his life.. but since he is in school and is studying for a GREAT career I’m not too worried.. he just had a set back nothing too bad..
but I definitely agree with the 25 year old not having a job sounds absolutely horrible! and I don’t know ANY other girls who would deal with it.. but he’s just such an AMAZING guy and I definitely KNOW I’m going to marry him..

[clubgirl]

Well in my opinion most high school relationships don’t even last. you need your own time to experiment and fuck around with just being drunk and being able to go out and do whatever you want!
I always said I won’t settle down until I’m completely ready! and that’s what I did! I stayed single from 17-22.. and at 22 I got into a serious relationship that I don’t regret what so ever.. I think age is a big deal because you can date someone for 5 years at a young age and someone for a year at like 23-24 and go through way more serious stuff and just feel ridiculously closer!..
I don’t know what advice to give you because you are so attached but I feel like those types of relationships end up with someone wanting to cheat or go out and have fun.. because it’s something you neglected doing..

[clubgirl]

Well getting our own places isn’t an option though..
We also have sex when I close my business at night.. I have a mattress at the place.. but someone explained to me that it’s also not the same..
so I’m not really sure what to do? I don’t know if I should just drop the sex subject since a bed is not feasible or what to do?
Is it something worth breaking up over? when nothing else in the relationship is bad and I feeel that he reallly wants me like by the way he kisses me touches me everything?

Also, do you think it’s unhealthy to constantly be with that person? because I’m starting to feel like we need to miss each other we see each other everyday for like 6+ hours.. and I know it’s supposed to be a good thing cuz it means we don’t get sick of each toher.. But I feel like it opens the door for more stupid problems or little fights.. We haven’t fought over something in about a month and I’ve pretty much fought about EVERYTHING in the relationship and gotten my way.. he was talking to his ex and I made him change his number so she would never bother him again.. and he doesn’t see my point of view in everything but from the beginning of the relationship to now he has improved significantly in communicating with me and keeping the relationship together..
and like I said we are pretty sure that we want to marry each other but who knows what can happen in the next two years he wants to get settled first with a job and stuff..
?

[clubgirl]

I would go crazy if my boyfriend even talked to his ex! i made him change his number because she was bugging. I don’t think he should hang out with her and it doesn’t mean you dont trust him but the way I see it is like is this person really thatttt important to u (the ex to him). that would drive me insane!

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