April,
Thanks so much for responding and great advice. As of now she is not talking to me so i am going to wait until i move to start talking to her i think. She has a very analytical way of thinking and i believe that i might be too much of a risk being that i live far and the way i treated her. My goal is to start talking every 3-4 days for a while then every 2-3 until i get down to every other day or every day like it was before. If i can get this far i will start to send her little things at random times just to show i care. I guess the real thing i have to change is my attitude when talking to her. Like you said shes really analytical and i think i blew it forever because when we talked a week ago i said do you think i will ever have a second chance and she said the way she feels now is that we will never have a relationship again and i really believed her. Again thanks so much for reaching out with the great advice i really needed a second opinion and you helped a lot.
