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I agree with what April said “It’s very hard to have an adult relationship with a guy who isn’t in a position to really date you, which is what it sounds like was the problem with your ex”.

Take time to decide and do not be impulsive with your decisions.

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You are in the right track jade. Enjoy , have fun , don’t limit yourself in the four corner of your room.
That man you are talking give him a chance to see you. Who knows you can be a better partner:)

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meganxgirl,

Let your former boyfriend to find himself. Give him time. Don’t feel that he betray you or he doesn’t love you like the way you do. Maybe he is just confuse and he thinks that if you will continue your relationship he will just ruin your life. there are many good things around you just need to become appreciative.

Cheer up meganxgirl!

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@miss april, how will she flirt, specially online?

sorry…

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by law you are divorced, so there is no50/50 as far as i know everything will be a conjugal property only if you remarry.

be a passionate loving wife thinking of the great future both of you will share when he retires and watching your children marry and play with pretty grand children., every morning when you wake up tell your self “he and i will be lovers till the end”. when something is broken try mending not throwing

remember there is a law called “Law of attraction” enjoy your relationship your worries may set it in troubled waters.

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yes., it can be easy for you to separate love from sex, but she is a woman, with children. please consider that she being pretty is not a reason, she is a fragile creature that needed to be cared, given enough affection and strength specially these days that she is trying to raise her children alone…

if you constantly get into her, you will deprive her of time that she can work, spend time with her children and giving her fake memories of happiness with you.

yes there are many liberated women but please do not stereotype…

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the immediate cue a guy is interested in you is his time and small gestures that he is extending efforts to have a communication with you.
example:
>even if your message is skeptically nonsense he will manage to reply making it a conversation.
>when time passes, days, that you do not have a communication, he will pop up saying timid little things like “hi” “how are you?” a single “…” message may mean “i miss you, lets talk”
>when he tries to put spark and momentum to your conversations, you can sense it when a conversation is one sided

in my point of view if he turns down your offered relationship, may be he is really not into it, a man’s brain have a different circuitry compared to a woman’s, when they say “don’t” they mean it unlike us if we say “don’t” it may mean “persuade me more and you will have a yes”

if you really like him try friendship and work from there or find another… 🙂

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hi kitkat620,
You are really in trouble. You lead this guy to false hope. I bet he thinks that you also have feelings for him. Your action speaks even if you don’t utter words of love to him.
Why not try to give chance to be his girl friend, maybe he is the one you’re looking.

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Miss SweetGirl28
If he feel the same way like you do I guess he will spend time to you. He will make an extra effort just to keep in touch with you. But if you feel that you are worthless maybe it is the time to stop believing to your fantasy. Whirlwind romance is the right term for you. It will just last for a short time.

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Hi Winny

You need to balance your feelings. You said that you love the first guy but you broke up because of different problems. If you will see each other again and would have a second chance for your romance can you adjust to his way of life. Can you live with him? Well about the other guy who is rich and independent you must say to him what feelings do you have for him. Never lead a guy in false hope.

I guess you should avoid seeing both of them. Give time to relax and unwind.

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